There was anticipation in the air as Hand and Cloth Associates spoke about the meeting their husbands were invited to last Thursday.  This was the second meeting of what we hope will be at least a monthly event.  I unintentionally overheard one of our women talking to her husband over phone, telling him to comb his hair and wear clean clothes when he comes.

The first meeting was attended only by a few brave husbands as they expected us to upbraid them for their misdeeds.  After seeing that our goal is to support their families, they were willing to come back.  Six men arrived at the office, greeted by wives eager to show them where they work, and introduce them to colleagues.

After introductions, I briefed them about Hand and Cloth, including our dreams to see Hand and Cloth Associates having a dignified life in society. When husbands were asked to tell something about how they feel about their wives working at Hand and Cloth, they were all very positive; happy and proud of their wives and their contribution to the family. Two of the husbands present in the meeting are unemployed, dependent on their wives’ income.  They asked for help finding work so they too can contribute to the family. They also mentioned that they want their wives to save some money every month for the future.

Before meeting these men, I had heard a lot about them from their wives, not much of which as positive. Verbally the men expressed support and appreciation for their wives.  As the saying goes: Deeds, not words!   We are hopeful and expectant we will see improvements in family relationships! Andora Sarker, Hand and Cloth Business Manager/Associate Mentor, Bangladesh